The bare minimum is an option we often choose because we are scared to lose the person who soothes our trauma! It’s an uncertain response, filling a need but we continue searching and receiving what we know truly makes us bleed. It’s the blood, not his but ours. It’s self inflicted pain because we’ve been trained to comfort ourselves with things that don’t suffice, so we blame. Those around us surround us with constant memories and satisfy our greed to achieve and fill the void. We’ve employed our insecurities and allowed them to rule us, but they fool us into thinking we aren’t anything worthy of speaking the truth.
Treated with kindness, love and affection, they blind us to see only what ones willing to be, not enough but just enough to feed our strong holds. It wears us thin, but we substitute for things that don’t truly amplify what’s within. It’s deeply buried, but it’s there, we stare at it with blinders on it’s like a xylophone. It’s loud and clear precise in sound, we never really get to see it until we are done being passed around. The bare minimum is like a top tier condominium, but that’s only because we settle In discomfort.
Dig deep and and take the blinders off! The real you is in there it just needs to be dusted off and life needs to be spoken into you. Embrace this new walk, the new you, and the new goals you have Accept that guilt of not giving yourself the best. Allowing the insecurities to control your life. Let go and let your souls search take lead. We have all accepted the bare minimum and some of us still are. Don’t be ashamed and don’t judge. Be kind to yourself and take your time. Write them down, talk them out, do the Hokey Pokey and turn around and shout them out! Lol… I just wanted to say that. But, hopefully you smiled! Look yourself in the mirror, I’m talking dead straight in the eyes and say, IM NO LONGER ACCEPTING THE BARE MINIMUM. IM NO LONGER CAGED BY MY INSECURITIES. DISCOMFORT IS TEMPORARY!
It's the Remedy!
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